There are a lot of men that are frustrated and upset at how they are treated by women in nightclubs. It seems like it's almost impossible to get a date, let alone sex, with a woman that you meet in a nightclub. Women get dressed up to look their sexiest, tease you, and then laugh all the way home while you go home frustrated, alone, and with maybe a phone number that never goes anywhere.

If you're a guy, then you may think that nightclubs are some kind of cruel joke that is played on men. However, I'm here to tell you that you're wrong. In reality, nightclubs fool women. As I've stated before, nightclubs attract the most attractive men in any given city. I'm sure you've seen it. You look around, and it seems like at least half of the men are tall as heck.

Women who frequent nightclubs take that as reality, and then they shoot down almost every guy that approaches them, and flake on almost every guy that they give their phone numbers to. Women who frequent nightclubs think that attractive men are the norm, when in reality, attractive men are incredibly rare.

In the end, the economics eventually balance out. For the number of attractive men that are REALLY out there, women simply cannot afford to reject as many men as they do. And this balances out in the real world. When you go out into the real world, if you're an attractive man, women practically throw themselves at you if you're willing to talk to them. Why? Because when the reality hits women that there simply are not as many attractive men as they originally thought there were, they get desperate.

And then you combine that with the fact that men don't care about their appearances as much as women do. What does this mean? Men tend to let themselves go, which places an even higher demand for attractive men. As I've said in a previous post, when I'm in nightclubs, I barely get any attention, but out in the real world, I constantly have to bat women away from me and ignore them.

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I'll give you a better example of what I'm talking about. Going back to there being a lot of tall men in nightclubs, let's look at the reality of it

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"In the U.S. population, about 14.5 percent of all men are six feet or over."That's a little over one in ten men that are at least six feet tall. The stats get even more interesting:
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"At least 3.9 percent as they are those eligible for the Tall Club which make up a minuscule percentage of the U.S. population. Just 0.7 percent of U.S. women are 5-foot-10 or taller, and just 3.9 percent of men are 6-foot-2 or taller. The average heights for American men and women are 5-foot-9 and 5-foot-3.7 respectively, according to statistics from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services."

That is less than one out of twenty men. And out of those men, how many of them have a good personality to go along with that height? Also, how many of those men are even willing to approach those women outside of nightclubs? Of course it isn't always about height, but I just posted that statistic to give you an idea of how nightclubs tend to distort reality. When you're in a nightclub Links to an external site., you may see tall men everywhere, but in the real world, they barely even exist.

Women are fooled by nightclubs. They think that there are many more attractive men out there than there really are. Most men aren't tall, and most men don't care about their appearances. It just so happens that nightclubs tend to attract the most attractive men in any given city, thus distorting the reality of the sexual marketplace.

Eventually, this catches up to women, most likely when they stop hanging out in nightclubs, and they get desperate. That attractive guy that they rejected and/or flaked on in a nightclub, is the same attractive guy that they will throw themselves at once they are out in the real world and the reality hits them that attractive men are actually incredibly rare.

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To get a real good look at reality catching up to women, take a look at some of those hot girls you knew in college and high school. Look at the guys that they're with now. These men are flabby, unattractive, and look like they don't care about their appearances. The only way that all of those attractive women can have attractive boyfriends, is if they are willing to share them, which most women aren't, hence, why they ultimately end up with physically unattractive boyfriends once reality hits them.